{"id":1420,"date":"2010-11-22T11:09:47","date_gmt":"2010-11-22T18:09:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/howtobefit.com\/coach-blog\/?p=1420"},"modified":"2010-11-22T11:09:47","modified_gmt":"2010-11-22T18:09:47","slug":"you-dont-need-to-be-a-superstar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/howtobefit.com\/coach-blog\/2010\/11\/22\/you-dont-need-to-be-a-superstar\/","title":{"rendered":"You don&#8217;t need to be a superstar."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You don&#8217;t need to be a superstar. \u00a0 Its what I tell my kids all the time. \u00a0 I don&#8217;t care if they don&#8217;t become the baseball superstar, or musical prodigy, I just want them to be good, healthy kids.<\/p>\n<p>I think we focus too much on our kids becoming the next prodigy. \u00a0 We pay all this money to get our kids private lessons to be better for baseball, football, you name it. \u00a0 But we forget to just raise happy, healthy kids that are kind and not spoiled.<\/p>\n<p>Its kind of the same thing with fitness. \u00a0 You don&#8217;t need to look like you&#8217;re getting ready for a Sport Illustrated Swimsuit cover, or Men&#8217;s Health magazine. \u00a0 You&#8217;re primary focus should be getting healthy from the inside out. Don&#8217;t worry if you still might not be able to wear a bikini or have a 30 inch waist for a guy. What really matters is having a healthy heart, a healthy body.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, if you really want to set the goal of entering a bikini contest or guys if you want to get a washboard abs, that&#8217;s fine. \u00a0 But don&#8217;t forget what really matters in the end, and that&#8217;s just being healthy. Being healthy enough to walk up a flight of stairs, or play with your kids or to prevent that stroke.<\/p>\n<p>As a Team \u00a0 Beachbody Coach, I can help you reach your healthy weight. Let me know if you need help setting realistic goals. \u00a0 You can email me at <a href=\"mailto:fitwithjessica@live.com\">fitwithjessica@live.com<\/a> or you can sign up for free online coaching with me by <a href=\"https:\/\/teambeachbody.com\/signup\/-\/signup\/free?referringRepId=37971\">clicking here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You don&#8217;t need to be a superstar. \u00a0 Its what I tell my kids all the time. \u00a0 I don&#8217;t care if they don&#8217;t become the baseball superstar, or musical prodigy, I just want them to be good, healthy kids. 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